Wow to all the replies on here.
Well I just became a single mother of twins 6 months ago. The father wanted me to abort them. He has another child off another women who's 12 years and he only sees him every second weekend. Though he won't acknowledge his beautiful twins off me.
His never met them and doesn't intend to. I am currently going through post natal depression..that's where some women get the "bad mother" badge put on them but I can only answer for my self I love and adore my children I did not ask for post natal nor did I ask to do this on my own. Basically what I'm trying to say we should stop putting badges on others and just say we like to date anyone we match with. I would not care if a man is a father or not, all I care about is if he is a decent and caring person inside and out.
But I'm not looking for a relationship, I'm not ready. I just want to focus on my children and my self.
All the best xo!

Wow to all the replies on here.
Well I just became a single mother of twins 6 months ago. The father wanted me to abort them. He has another child off another women who's 12 years and he only sees him every second weekend. Though he won't acknowledge his beautiful twins off me.
His never met them and doesn't intend to. I am currently going through post natal depression..that's where some women get the "bad mother" badge put on them but I can only answer for my self I love and adore my children I did not ask for post natal nor did I ask to do this on my own. Basically what I'm trying to say we should stop putting badges on others and just say we like to date anyone we match with. I would not care if a man is a father or not, all I care about is if he is a decent and caring person inside and out.
But I'm not looking for a relationship, I'm not ready. I just want to focus on my children and my self.
All the best xo!