well to me you are 20 and at a young age guys dont want to get married and have familys yet so i find no all guys but most are players and there girls out there too that do the same so take your time and it will happen to you dont rush in it lots of time to find the one out there for you do the things you need to do in life for you take care of you and smile everyday guys like good girls and a great smile the ones that cheat dont know what they are really missing and how you get over being cheatting on well be friends with them and get to know them before saying ok i go on a date with you and if you really dont want a date cause it make you sick say no thats not hard cause that hurts too someone standing you up if i was you and 20 years old i take my time and get to know people first and do the things i want in life before trying to make a family