I feel you on your concerns. I'm a 66 year old. Currently I have 144 women who say that they like me. Even though I have selected to be interested in meeting women between the age of 55-65 about 60 percent are between the age of 30-40 years of age. Also even though they claim to like me and desire to meet up with me none of them, or should I say ALL of them leave a message or respond to my messages. And the less than 1% that do respond with a message want me to go to Hangouts to communicate. If you don't know Hangouts is a scammers haven. Like you said something is definitely NOT right.