I don't know about all but I expect the following...

Hold a job done and help take care of bills. If you need help ask. Dont assume a woman can read your mind. RESPECT is the most important then followed by HONESTY. If something bothers you or upsets you tell her. Dont wait 10 years down the road and bring it up. Show her you care. DOESN'T have to be money, can be something as simple as sneaking up behind her when she is making dinner and kissing her softly on the neck or ear. Wisper something softly to her. Pull your part in the relationship. If you try then she will try. You cant go wrong but showing someone you love them. Never go to bed angry. Argue get it out. Most of all tell her you love her.