New to this topic but found it to be rather interesting for sure. Both sides are guilty in wanting to have the upper hand. Some guys play the role for only one goal and that is a sad because it gives the next game a hurdle to cross.

Why do women test men? Why do men test women? Is it that we are not secure or another reason entirely.

Why is it that when a man says that he is only looking to date and for nothing serious women try to change this status? The guy is being upfront but you choose to ignore him for your own personal reasons. Then after maybe going out a few times you get close and think that will change his thinking but does not and now he is a bad guy/player.