The Word does tell us we are to judge other Christians by their fruits. I use a mesurement that my husband taught me many years ago....the maount of mercy and grace you show someone else is the amount you will receive when you need mercy and grace. I judge....but I am careful not to judge too harshly....it is difficult not to judge at all...but be careful and be gracious. Try to keep in mind...you do not know what that individual is/has gone through and it took us all a lifetime to get where we are at the present.

This is very interesting. I am finding that younge men are much more respectful and treat their women like a queen. I get hit on my much younger men....meaning...middle 30's up to 50. I find that very interesting. When I ask the reason for their interest in more mature women...they say...they are more fun, more understanding and not as materialistic. Just to show you ladies and men the other side of the coin.