sometimes guys will not go to the girl they really want to meet... they "test the waters" with the other one first. This way, if they screw up, they only blew it with the "other" girl.
I don't know if this makes any since.

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Thank you!

and your point is?

missing my point... it's not exactly the same way because, after a
failed attempt, adjustments are made based on that information. these
are thought out adjustments. if no adjustment was made, because it is
being insisted that it must work, then it's insane!

But each time you shoot for the basket and miss your next attempt will
be made with adjustments to your technique based on what went wrong the
previous attempt. Until, eventually, the shot is made. So each time
something different is being done to acheive the goal... trial and
error. If you didn't make any adjustments based on what was learned from
the previous attempt, and expected a different result, it could be
considered an insane attempt.

to "try try again" is an attempt to achieve a goal. One may not use the
same methods each time he "trys" to reach that goal. It's trial by
error. Insane is to do the exact same method each time expecting a
different result, but always getting the same.

to "try" is failure with honor

here ya go

Martin Luther King said: Faith is taking the first step even though you
can't see the rest of the staircase

Glad you like it!

sweet...maybe we should get a room

what or who?

eating what?

what's the topic again?

sweet = yum

well sweet, we must be on the same diet!

Nope... just stressed... it's understandable.

your welcome... we all have those days from time to time. the worst
thing to do is dwell on it... go do something that will give you
pleasure... I come up with a simple project that I cn complete with
little time and expense... sometimes I'll wash my car and detail the
inside...or go to the beach, clean my apt. etc. listen to some NEW
music (not old music that will bring back memories. Sometimes I even
alot myself an hour or 2 to allow those thoughts to just happen...and
then move on. time heals....
I hope this helps

a horse walks into a bar, and the bartender says "hey buddy, why the
long face?"

a giraffe walks into a bar and says "hi everyone, highballs on me!"

did ya smile?