Its OK your direct and the person knows wat to expect but the sex thing you should leave out because now a guy could wait and play off that move. It should be removed so I guy can automatically be himself. Don't be sad or discourage all males think of sex as something the mean thing you want to reflect is that your the prise your worth having around your cool your willing to explore boundaries your needing to grow as a woman your willing to help a man grow. Its about comprismising differences most guys would love a woman who has everything together but most women who do look down on men who don't its the same with men who have everything together look down on women. Take away financial worth we should all do and put are worth on a person character define them to see if they fit as a friend, lover, spouse etc