I think the biggest problem women encounter is men not being emotionally available.
That doesn't necessarily mean they're players, I think mostly not. But they haven't healed from their past relationship(s), not even 15-20+ yrs later.

That's the biggest issue I hear of that women encounter. They have healed, are empowered, feel good about life and want a great new love relationship. But to find a man who's in that place too...

Men wanting sex only depends on what dating site you're on. If you avoid such sites you rarely encounter that.