I would move on as soon as I read that someone is extremely judgemental. I don't need someone who criticises everything I do or stand for. Been there, done that.
Maybe you can work on that so it softens. Usually it has to do with lack of self-love.
Just an extra piece of info. Whatever you do with it.

But, I need someone who can afford
to put gas in my lamborghini.

When someone you don't know or barely know assigns you a pet name or endearment, does get under your skin?

I'm not talking about when an elderly person refers to you as Dear...probably because they've forgotten your name.

I'm not talking about the lady at the register or DMV who calls everyone Sugar...probably to avoid using the word Ma'am.

To me Baby, Sugar, Sweetheart and Darling, and the like, are endearments reserved for family, dearest friends and intimate partners. I guess to me their use is more of a right to be earned.

What say you?

I spent 7 years active duty in the military.
Last names were their names and what would make you think last names is disrespectful? You have no pride in your family name?

The only thing that gets my goat about names is when someone younger than me tries to call me 'son'. There was only one person that ever had the right to call me son and he's dead.