Humph! Ok. So i could stand on the borderline, right? Age is and is not a factor in a relationship if you asked me. Some persons mature slowly with age due to exposure and experiences in culture, choice or upbringing. Therefore, some 12 year-old would do better in a comitted relationship than a 35 year-old, simply because of their exposure to their environment and experiences. Attitude, Effort, Ambition, and Motive are the meat and juice that decides a relationship, and all of them rest on the two pillars of exposure and experience. Now, here is the basis of my reasoning. tadser@yahoo.com