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Wed 08/06/08 01:13 PM

My brother in law had to attend a seminar about appropriate behavior in the work place at his new job, (everyone did), and the speaker made a very good point.
The way the human brain works is to categorize all incoming information so that we can better process and understand the world around us. That makes EVERYONE a racist, EVERYONE a sexist, and EVERYONE an ageist. We automatically classify the people we meet by the apparent information about them. Nobody should feel bad for that. The only thing people should feel bad about is believing, acting on, and perpetrating the stereotypes we've grown up with in an imperfect society.


right on

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Wed 08/06/08 01:12 PM

we all do. it's human nature and impossible to avoid. We all have cognitive shortcuts because it would be impossible for us to process all of the information that is around us at all times. If we took the time to process every bit of information available to us, we'd never be able to function. Stereotyping and prejudging can be very harmful, but are not possible to avoid unfortunately. Its more about the type of filters we see the world through than the presence of them.


exactly, and that's why i'm asking if anyone realize they do judge people and admit what type of people they judge and what they judge them about

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Wed 08/06/08 01:11 PM


i know i assume things about people very often, even though it's wrong to do. do you assume anything about anyone based on things like their looks, race, and religion? what do you assume?


I assume you do not know how to capitalize (i) HA!bigsmile


i like lower case letters. it's a thing, sorry :tongue:

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Wed 08/06/08 01:10 PM

Well maybe some guys don't read profiles because there way to long and go on and on about how that person is so perfect or how they want this or that etc etc etc.

Crazy, maybe if every body left more things out of there profile so more people have the time to get to know one another then just maybe more people would have more friends and or dates off this very site. But then again I doubt that would happen.

Oooh and yeah before you think I am one of those guys who do not read peeps profiles .. your wrong, I do.. unless it's so long you wrote a book about your life and your mistakes and so much more etc. I mean some people may not have the extra time to read a book etc, about who you want or don't want in a guy or girl etc.




i agree

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Wed 08/06/08 01:07 PM
i know i assume things about people very often, even though it's wrong to do. do you assume anything about anyone based on things like their looks, race, and religion? what do you assume?

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Wed 08/06/08 01:05 PM
i gotta be honest

i'll answer if i think she is pretty
if she isn't a psycho close-minded religious fanatic
and if she seems to have at least one common interest with me
otherwise, what's the point?

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Wed 08/06/08 01:03 PM
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Wed 08/06/08 12:58 PM



Haha.
Not yet.


that's optimistic, meet anyone cool/ interesting in the short time you've been on here?

(you seem to be posting a lot, which is a good thing, that's how you get to know people)

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Wed 08/06/08 12:54 PM


sure, i'll talk, whats up?


Hey.
Nothing too much, you?


just trying to get through the day doing as little as i possibly can, heh

anything interesting happen to you today?

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Wed 08/06/08 12:51 PM
Edited by QueOndeGuero on Wed 08/06/08 12:51 PM
i think you can tell the real ones from the fakes, both are fun to talk to

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Wed 08/06/08 12:48 PM
sure, i'll talk, whats up?

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Wed 08/06/08 12:42 PM




pretend you're on family double dare. if you show her some old nickelodeon, i'm sure she'd love it :tongue:



do they not slime anymore!?!??!!?!!??!


i don't think so, new nickelodeon sucks


I feel like my childhood has just been washed away frown

what is nickelodeon without sliming? what is this world coming to?


the world is pain and misery outside of the 80s and 90s


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Wed 08/06/08 12:34 PM


pretend you're on family double dare. if you show her some old nickelodeon, i'm sure she'd love it :tongue:



do they not slime anymore!?!??!!?!!??!


i don't think so, new nickelodeon sucks

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Wed 08/06/08 12:27 PM
pretend you're on family double dare. if you show her some old nickelodeon, i'm sure she'd love it :tongue:

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Wed 08/06/08 12:26 PM
photogenic


cool. if you want to be friends, you should add me
and i would never call my stare sexy, goofy maybe, heh
flowerforyou

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Wed 08/06/08 12:17 PM

beengonetoolong


how are ya?? long time no seeflowerforyou


sweetsmile



:tongue:

been pretty good, yeah its been a while, busy, how are you?


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Wed 08/06/08 12:12 PM

Anything happening to my sonfrown

That would effect EVERYTHING in my life.


whoa you have a son?! i looked at your profile and you look like you're 16! which is definitely a compliment... not that i'm a cradle robber... ok all of that came out wrong. all i mean is, you look young

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Wed 08/06/08 12:10 PM
lifestoolong9

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Wed 08/06/08 11:39 AM
if you're a joker, and he can't take a joke, i'm sure it wasn't meant to be anyway

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Wed 08/06/08 10:55 AM


hi, i'm bored too
how are you?


bored, lol
you?

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