Hi! I was noticing the same thing! I just joined, but I'm not sure I'm staying. Seeme like the men are way too young who are hitting...and, yes, I'm surprised they let men on who say they are married and are looking for sex!!GEEZE!! No thanks. My hubby of 40 years just passed away a few months ago so I thought I'd find some people my age to talk to. I have kids older than some of these guys! I tried to sell my Hubby's Harley, one of the geezers thought because I was alone, he'd just move in! People are too strange. I'm happier alone, I guess... I'd rather have girlfriends to laugh with!! Pat