I am new to this place so first of all I go by TJ. I am 33 yrs old and have been out to family, friends, and the world since 00'. I am not ashamed of who I am or what others think since they do not know me, the walk of life I went through or for those who think I am a lesbian cuz I got treated badly by males, got raped, have head issues.... nope none of those just knew from a VERY young age that this was who I am. Either way I am on here because I am trying to make more friends in my area and can be from any where really, I do not have many gay friends where I am. I just want to surround myself with people who understand.