Some of us don't think with our genitals. There is nothing wrong with being in a relationship and gettin' some lovin'! that's the additional connection after communication that further developsthe bond, trust, which leads into further intimacy. In the world we live in today, people are so anxious. Most people are just in a hurry to feel fulfilled. Often like an interview, dating is overrated. Why place some much pressure when two people could just go out as friends and then take it from there. No need to make an impression or anything. Just go as who you are. Thats why most people have problems mid-way. Too busy placing the front and then wonder why things have changed later on. ..Most women are not put off by the subject of sex; I would say it has to do with the approach. An ignorant mind gets an ignorant response. Most of the time if a guy put off about the subject sex or doesn't make any moves towards it, it's just as bad, becuase then there's an assumption either he goes the other way, doesn't like you or that he's cheating. Ladies, pick your poison.