I read over your profile for you; I thought it was honest and sincere...from the heart...and expressing what I'm alot of people who come on here and other sites are truely looking for. I've noticed in the year or so that I've been doing online dating sites like this, off and on, that people get too critical about it...they try to use the search like you would a menu at a resturant or an online shopping network when they're looking to buy a tv...picking out all the bells and whistles they figure they need; but, will probably never use once they have them..lol As far as your profile is concerned ...I don't think anything is wrong with it or your designs on what you're looking for....the only thing I could say is maybe switch your primary picture with one of the other ones you have on here... because the one you're using now is a little out of focus...I wish you the best in your search.