The men here can love you before they've even read your profile. They can tell just by looking at your pic. They are talented don't you think?

too funny!!!!

I think before you say I Love You, you should know whether or not He/She is really into you. You can tell a lot by how they act with you.

An excellent book on the subject is "He's Really Not That Into You" written by one of the writers from the Sex In The City show. It will tell you all the subtle ways you can tell whether or not a man is really into you or you're something else to him.

I've read the book myself and everything it tells you is true to life when it comes to men.

~~~~~David Lee Roth........" Im just a gigilo and everywhere i go people all talk about meeeeee!!!!
bosie bosie bop de bop IIIIIIIIIIIIIII aint got nobody....nobody who cares about meeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!~~~~~~~~

And I'm ALWAYS tired! But do I care?!

I did 57 hours of phone calls in the first week!

I think I'm up to Roughly 5-6 hours per night for the last 2 months.

Be honest with them. Let them know that you enjoy spending time with them but, it is a little too soon to be tossing the L word. (I would do that but, only nicer).

Don't listen to her. She knows not of what she speaks. It is exactly 9442 emails, 46 phone hours and 2.6 months.

Maybe you could take an average.

btw, I LOVE YOU!

I believe it is 10,342 emails and 57 phone hours, over about 3 months. Yeah...that's the formula...any sooner and you can't know them well enough.

It does take time to SAY THAT!

And if they say THAT to soon,,,,I tell them I never say that in-less I meet and come to know them better in person.
THATS JUST ME.. But SOME have said THAT or hinted THAT to me and to be REAL..
It scares me as to if THEY really know THAT WORD and its REAL DEEP meaning...
So I would ask why or how they find THAT possible w/o ever meeting me yet?
And then I would say its COOL to feel you LOVE ME as a FRIEND,,thats fine, but as for loving me as your LOVER,,I wish you would researve THAT until a later time as WE should BOTH be certain before making THAT CONVICTION!

but this is just MY oppinion!! GOOD LUCK!

I just wanted to say to all my fellow JSH peeps out there, that I really enjoy being on this site and I am glad for the great friends I have made and for the ones i have not yet met yet...OHHHHHHHHHHH and """""I LOVE YOU" was that too soon

I love you!

I you

No way... I would be very concerned..

Yes I have .. (had it said to me)

Yes it's BS ..

Hmmm could this have been about a 4 month relationship and you arent ready to meet?

ya gotta meet inperson first at least.