Lost me.

Actually, it would take someone taking the bull by the horns and organizing something. I've done this before, but was disappointed with the lack of help, and then the low turn-out after all the "Oh, yes, yes!" RSVP's.

To tell the truth, I'm willing to organize something on my own, but I'd just like to ask that if you say you're coming, be a grown-up and follow through on the promise!

I live on the west side of Aurora, but am open to meeting in or near Chicago or Joliet or where ever. Dave & Buster's kind of stuff is fun, but outside is even better in the summer. Suggestions?

Dying alone is not as frightening to me as continuing to live alone. When I die, I know where I will be going, and it will be so much more sublime than this sphere I'm on for the time being.

What I'd like to know is how much longer will I be trying to make the best of the time I'm here, when I have so much to share with someone else?

As I say in my profile, smoking is a deal-breaker for me. And it's SO disappointing to read a man's profile, and he sounds awesome, and then get to the part where he answers the smoking question with "Regularly" or "Occasionally". Such a let-down!

And just what exactly is "Occasionally"? Why aren't the choices for this question a plain "Yes" or "No"? Either you do or you don't, whether it's just when socializing on the weekends, 2 cigs a day, or a pack with every meal.

"Occasional" smokers, please don't slam me; this is just my personal preference.

(Edited for typo, sorry.)

Dozing in a hammock by a remote lakeside mountain cabin with the love of my life.

Hey, if you're gonna dream...

Morning, Magic! (I love that name; my cat's name is Lisa's Black Magic, Magic for short.)

Have a great day!

I have no fear of the day. I was born on a Friday the 13th...'course that could explain a lot of things, lol!

It's the rest of the year I tiptoe around, haha!

I'll take the waffles for breakfast, then sex for dessert.

Then I'm good 'til dinner!

If you believe in the possibility of a soulmate, that implies there's only one. We only have one soul, therefore only one soulmate.

I hope I find mine in time to enjoy some time here with him...even though if he's truly my soulmate, we'll be together for eternity.

If men had boobs, they'd probably pay much less attention to ours, which would be great...

Then again, would it? Let me re-think this...

I live in the western suburbs of Chicago, and lately, this Illinois thread seems to be turning into a personals site for specific Illinois locations.

"Not that there's anything wrong with that"... but how's that working out for you?

Is anyone interested in an actual meet-and-greet (that may possibly result in meeting someone nice)?

How about a gathering for the Cubs-Sox games later this month? Tickets to the game may be sold out, but the neighborhood taverns/restaurants aren't!

I - we - would welcome other suggestions too, I'm sure. C'mon, friends, it's time to take the next step. JMHO.

Hope I haven't been too forward with this; I'm just frustrated with my keyboard being enough. Because it isn't.

Whew! Ok, I'm now exhausted. Today.

Last Sunday, to my dad.

Waiting to be able to say it to someone I'm not related to who I know loves me back.

You are too funny, Magic! I'm not a beat-em-over-the-head-with-the-Bible type; I only work for them, hehe.

Desirable

I'll tell him that if necessary, Magic. Might prove a little awkward, though. He's a pastor; I work at a church, lol! Guess that explains why I'm here instead of working, huh?

With my luck, my boss is "playing" in this same thread!

I'm at work, but that doesn't mean I'm working! You have a great day too!

Thanks, Charles.