i've had a good run of bad luck....but the last three women i dated said they wanted a nice guy, attentive, shows effort, listens, etc. But, when it came right down to it...they picked the "bad boy type"....please guys, good decent men; don't let what i say here discourage you from being nice, be who you are. I just happen to have dated three women who, I found out later....had a history of choosing the "bad boy types" I don't know, but i think we all have a type that we are attracted to...that may not be good for us...when you see yourself gravitating toward that type? Run like hell!!!