I speak from personal experience. I married someone like that and girl everytime something bad happened in the past twelve years of marriage or I lost my job he did the same thing and never changed. I too have supported him when he didn't have a job, but when I remind him of that he just blows it off. They don't change...it only gets worse. Even if it seems better for a time, something will happen and they start acting the same way again. That isn't something you want your daughter to think is okay either. I constantly would remind my son that this isn't how a marriage is suppose to be and a man shouldn't treat a lady he loves like that.