Community > Posts By > graywolf55
. I gotta, I gotta. . peeeeee.. ![]() I was going to say this. Wolf, where are you? I can help out. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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All you givers, can I hold $20 real quick..yeah thats what I thought. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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I'm giving up!
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Used to be a giver, a pleaser, eternal helper, mostly at my own expense. Now I got healthier borders so if I give, it's okay, I don't overdo anymore. I've also learnt to receive when given, whether it's material or a compliment. Just like MsHarmony I feel that asking for things is somewhat more difficult still, although I do do it at times. Depends on what it's about I guess. Must say I find it typical that everyone says he/she's a giver, as if there's something wrong with taking? Both giving and taking can be wrong and hurtful to yourself (and others) if there is no inner balance. Seems to me that ppl think it looks better to say they're a giver and saying you're a taker means you're selfish. ![]() @ TXSgal, what a nice piccie you got up! ![]() ![]() |
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Oh well...jmo.....if you are going to keep that snail in your mouth...You are going to have to make people love or like you from the Inside Out...and it can be tough, if you dont do it right. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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no there is not. where all sex cazed man whores. we only think of one thing SEX. ok two things sex n food..well i guess three things.sex food and cars. maybe four things.aaaw forget it....where just whors.lol Don't forget beer Oh bingo ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Make a Wish
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![]() person! As long as their Heart is Good then everything else is a Bonus!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Wish you the best Greywolf and hope your recovery after surgery will be a swift one! Your friend, Missy ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Am I playing with Mrs. Potato Head here? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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I've just learned to develop a thicker skin about it and trolls just don't really bother me anymore. It is just people on the internet trying to get a reaction out of you, or just being annoying and they can only do that if you let them. In a way it's like therapy or an anger management thing. There's not really anything that anybody on here can say to or about me that would really bother me anymore. I too have developed my senses, reflexes and neutral defenses by my experiences online. But like I said, I'm here looking to connect with like minds on a dating site. I didn't come here thinking I was going to be unwittingly drawn into an anger management group therapy type thingy. ![]() On the gaming site forum that I was on I was sent to the flame forum to do my posting because I was pissing off a lot of people by keeping criticising how a lot of other players were playing the game. The rules are different in the flame forum and you can say pretty much anything that you like about anybody as long as you don't use personal information that they didn't bring into the ring themselves. I actually give them personal information about myself out of choice and I don't have to do that and I could be a cowardly troll that flames other people but doesn't divulge things about myself like they are but that just makes them into shadowy non entities really and that's how I look at them. It's called flamebaiting when people post things that are going to draw personal attacks. If you do it on here you get the personal criticism and that maybe makes you think about yourself and your problems and you can become less sensitive about it. It's not being able to take personal criticism that stops a lot of people from getting over their problems and holding onto anger and resentment. Once you stop just blaming other people you can start to take a good look at yourself and really own up to your faults. That's how I look at it. This explanation is blowing me away. If this is indeed how the games are played, or the fun is had on the boards... why is a dating site used in this manner? Whose business is it of others to nit pick and criticize any other member for their personal views or beliefs on a dating site? Even if people think they are trying to be of some psychological or social benefit to someone, if all they ever do is mock, poke fun and criticize how are they really being helpful? Or are they merely justifying their bully and alienating divisive tactics with self denial excuses? Isn't positive feedback ever an option? Or is the role of the group to completely tear a person down so they can remake them in their own image the only acceptable format? If this is indeed the case, then we really don't know what kind of people we are meeting online who may have an agenda that has absolutely nothing to do with dating and making new friends. To me this would be a more bait and switch type thing. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Just Say Hi To....
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Your day in three words
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Very very stressful!
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My Memorial!!
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![]() Ashes to ashes dust to dust, The Old Fart was burnt, So his Weaner won't Rust!! Viagra days may be coming near, And when this happens I won't even be Here!! ![]() ![]() |
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