Maybe because the work place isn't the best place to fall in love with a co worker, think about it for a minute or two and or longer.

Why ruin what you have. Surely he might want more but he probably knows if it doesn't work out then he has to be around you every day or whenever he works or look for something else because he doesn't feel good any more to be around others that could make smart a$$ remarks about him because you could of said something etc.

Not cool. Now I'm not sticking up for him or anybody, I'm just pointing out some facts, that even most companys don't even allow work place people to fall in love or go out with one another etc, that I know of.

Unless your company doesn't care and your not that type of person to make rumors up and talk trash about the other if it doesn't work out etc, then go for it.

I hate to break this too you, but that thing hanging down to my knees is NOT a tail. Just to clarify.

(sorry, could not resist that open shot)

Don't not just get boys......I've had some women flirt with me pretty heavy and then tell me that I'm awesome and not want to ruin a friendship.....

This is what I am referring to. This is the complexity of women's thoughts. Nothing at all wrong with it, it's how women are.

I'm just trying to point this out to the men, because guys are usually very "simple" thinkers.

Women refer to whats gong on here as a "game" and "maybe he will eventually want to be more". To be honest, you are setting your own fall. You are "wishing", "hoping", whatever term you want to use...but then your "dream" gets smashed by "reality".

And like in this case, the guy seemingly has already stated his position..so if you chase and get hurt, don;t blame the guy.

Nothing but a bunch of pup's running with their tail's between their leg's. Where's the real men to step up and give us some amswer's?

I agree you say you want a serious relationship then when you meet someone you TOTALLY back off and don't know what you want. What is that all about?

They don't even have the back bone to answer.

easy let down

Why do you guy's come on so strong and talk about being serious and then totally back off eh?

I think he's enjoying playing the game. If you want him, play along.

Things happen for a reason, it might actually be a blessing & you don't know it!! Hang in there, I'm sure you find someone

Your left with no choice then, Show him your "boobs"

Ignore him for a day... he'll come around if he's interested

Then why are you interested?

celebacy doesn't mean you can't date...........

Ok guys and gals I want an honest opinion. I met a girl and she seems like a good person but one thing is holding me back that I am a little worried about it and I need to know if you would at all be worried as well. She is still really good friends with every man she has ever dated and slept with, about 15 guys. And one for some reason I dont know it didnt work out between them but i think she still might have feelings about him. I'm not sure but theres a chance. Should i go for it or back off. It just worries me a little