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Tue 02/26/08 01:48 PM


oh how i love these threads.....

bbw or bigger girls whine about being treated differently. does it ever occur to them that its because they act differently or separate themselves?

i am a big girl...i love me, love who i am.

its how you present the package darlin...sexy is in the attitude. i have absolutely no problem in the man department. men are attracted to confidence, intelligence, etc.... i have dated men who NEVER dated a bigger woman before and never thought twice about asking me out because of who i was not what i was.

hold your heads high ladies, love yourself, be yourself...you are all beautiful! flowerforyou


i couldnt agree more. confidence is sexy no matter what your size!!!



See thats what i dont understand, I am a full time student with a GPA of 3.16 and am finishing school a year ahead of schedule. I am a mom, a loving mom, my boys mean the world to me. I am dedicated honest, generous and when my head was held up high and i met my now ex husband, he was an alcoholic, a drug abuser and mentally abusive. This all did not come on until i married him. i dont wanna stereotype men, so dont take this the wrong way, I love people, but people only love me when its convienent for them. The best relationship i had was with a man 3 years younger than me, and had the looks God gave a goat, but he was sweet and thoughtful and wonderful, but he was a child. I wishi had never let him go, but if i didnt i would not have the boys that i have. I just want you all to understand this is not a pitty party for luv, or any BBW involved, it is just a simple question so i can know if it is something i am doing wrong, or is there hope after all? I dream of love being devine, and holding hands on a front porch, talking in the night while watching stars. Waiting my wife away with some who, for a moment actually loved me. Go ahead, Call me crazy!!

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Tue 02/26/08 01:37 PM

On the subject I think
There is someone for every One
No matter the size or the look's

And you should never give up
I my not be a good looking
Man but i have pride and Confidence
It carry's you a long way in your
Search for what you want in life J/M/O


thanks its nice to actually hear something positive!

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Tue 02/26/08 01:34 PM

I like chubby girls. I don't know if i'm considered "cute" tho.


Yea babe you are cute! atleast to me you are! :wink:

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Tue 02/26/08 01:33 PM

there are many people out there that may not have the best looks on the outside but are the most beautiful people on the inside, theres something to think about.



I feel the same way. I have many talents a good sense of humor, and all around a great girl. I just i am just crazy for wishing that i could even get a date, its not big girls in general its just me.

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Tue 02/26/08 01:29 PM
yea babe your cute to me!smooched

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Mon 02/25/08 08:06 PM
I really gotta know, do good looking men like a big girl? As you can tell, i am a bit on the fluffy side. but i am commited to make a change, i just have no support in it so i am not doing as well as i would like. Thats besides the point tho. Guys, speak out, if you love big girls, let is know about it. You dont have to name names, its just to give girls like me a little hope.brokenheart

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Mon 02/25/08 07:48 PM
I know it doesnt mean anything to you but here goes. flowerforyou smooched

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Mon 02/25/08 07:46 PM
Obviusly i am new here. I have never done this online stuff. But I am pleased so far. I just want all of you to know who i am, and ask you. Honestly, do cute guys anywhere like a big girl? I am educated, responsible, and independant, but is seems like all i atract are the ones that i am not atracted to.sad
I need someone who loves me and my children we are a packaged deal. I also wonder, why do most guys tear people like me down, give up the chance to know who I am and really see my heart. I guess its just me.frown grumble sad