im getting really pissed off cuz i've come to the realization that its impossible 4 me to find a gf in cali.and its to the point where i just feel so hopeless.and its nothin against guys,but i really just dont wanna date them.my profile says bi,but i prefer women,anyway aside from that..i dunno why im even writin this,maybe in the hopes that my dream woman will come along n read this.but in the mean time,um..am i really that ugly??is that why i cant get a date?guys can answer this too.be honest.

thank u "yourlove1".u made me feel better.and,ya i think the city i live in is full of really shallow ppl.and its not like i live anywhere prestigious either,lol.i live in freakin lancaster.lol.

im not picky,trust me.ppl just dont look at me.and maybe its the city i live in.

thx 4 the advice.i mean,ppl keep tellin me that.and not to look so hard..and that sumone will find me.but i dunno,bein single is just too lonely. =[

ok,so i live in southern cali.and everybody thinks that its just such a nice place and everything.cuz i dunno,i guess thats how sum ppl perceive california.but the most annoying thing bout cali is that its nearly impossible to find a bf/gf here.at least 4 me.everybody just seems like they're into their own thing.and nobody seems interested in wantin to date me.and,i dunno if its the way i look or what.and i guess wat im tryna say is that im sick of the heartbreak of online/long distance relationships.they just simply dont work.they r truly sumthin that ppl settle 4 when they cant find a date in their own state.i mean,dont get me wrong..im not puttin down online relationships.they work 4 sum ppl and i was in a one year long one.but,my question is..why is it so hard 4 me to find a boy or girl(im bi)in california??is it always gonna be this way where i'll have to end up movin 4 sumone i love??this is also kind of an open invitation 4 anybody around my age from cali that wants to talk to me,lol.

well,the thing is that she claimed she was "out" to her friends n family.and she claimed she loved me.and everything from there just crashed down b4 my eyes but your prolly right,she prolly likes men.

lol i was thinkin bout the gun thing.just kiddin lol.but she should be taught a lesson.

im just really sad as hell right now.i met this woman on here n she turned out to be just really a complete joke,we were gonna talk on the phone,then all the sudden,i guess she freakin' just got scared or sumthin.and then she deletes me off her account a second later!!!the thing bout this gurl,is that it wasnt just a casual friendship thing,i really thought i loved this gurl.we had been talkin 4 a month and then bam...she just runs away.and this crap just keeps happening ya kno?and im not tryna sound like a whiny lil' gurl.but im truly just startin to give up on this site and ppl in general.i dunno..can sumbody just give me sum friendly advice on wat to do?no rude comments,plz...

thank u.I appreciate you bein so welcoming.my luck on this site has changed 4 the better,so far.i've met a great gurl.

is that supposed to be sarcastic?..cuz if it is..that aint too nice.i was just sayin that it aint easy to find sumone,im not sayin i have a rough life..matter fact..i wasnt even neccesarely complainin bout ne thing..so,ya.

who's dollie??lol.

lol..thx.

thanx 4 the advice.

thank u,im actually bisexual tho.lol.im not sure if they give that option on here tho.but..ya im lookin 4 a man or a woman.lol i dont discriminate.

so,im 18 years old.they say that these r supposed to be our best years..well they've pretty much sucked 4 me cuz i always have such a damn hard time findin sumbody.it makes me feel really bad ya kno?so thats why i joined this website to try and find sumone.anyway..to the point..am i not cute enuff?or is it maybe sumthin else like possibly my personality?idk...i guess i just wanna kno what everyone thinks?ya'll can b honest.

in reply to cdanny47...im actually bi. lookin 4 either one.but i prefer woman.lol.

nothin.i just think she was bein rude by just flat out sayin "get a prettier pic"..so i just shot back wit that age comment..

ya,i kinda ignored her.shes old anyway..lol.thx 4 sayin im pretty.

okk..how bout the otha ones?

what ya'll think?