i read alot of threads and have an idear who the main bloggers are, ive seen alot of funny & honest & inteligent well read people and some just damn beautifull people here.
my question is how come your here, is it that youve all got partners and use this site as an online comunity or what cos if your all singal ive no hope

also those who claim they're nice guys

Suzie O. Is very good,aslo try Clark Howard(on the radio)
Dave Ramsey.
The real trick is spending money on what you need to live first,and what you want second.
The #1 waste of money is interest on credit cards.
Stop using them-unless it is an emergency.
Look at what you spend each month on your cards,and how much is going toward the principle and how much is wasted on interest.
Also don't get anything from
'Rent-a-center'-'Arrons'.
You end up paying at least double what it would cost new.
I'm not saying it is easy-in fact it is very hard to be able save money.
The bottom line is you REALLY have to want to make the changes in your life that allow you to save.