Listen, your soul mate is someone from a past life, not necessarily the one you are going to spend your life with. What are the odd of you finding one someone for life like that? And what if your soul mate made a mistake and is stuck with someone else right now? Please, everyone has to stop looking for that one person.....and get to know people deeply and appreciate others, but most need to stop mistreating their bodies! If we were all in better shape, we might not need these silly online sites!