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Mon 07/20/20 07:16 AM
Edited by LoyD on Mon 07/20/20 07:16 AM
It's what you call fate I guess :smile:

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Mon 07/20/20 07:10 AM
Edited by LoyD on Mon 07/20/20 07:11 AM


Just think that she's as afraid as you and forge ahead.
Long, long ago I learned to think in terms of WHAT'S THE WORST THAT COULD HAPPEN?
Ask yourself that, in this case you could be rejected...........so what. laugh


Yep, it happens to me all the time. I've gotten quite used to it... rejection that is. laugh

But I see it as being one step closer to finding the right one for me. smitten

It's also helpful to not look forward and doom the relationship before it even begins. Girth makes a good point, she's most likely as afraid or nervous as you are. Just think positive and forge ahead. If she rejects you, she's not the one you want to be with anyways. winking

Best of luck to you! waving


:smile: Yeah I'll just have to keep searching for the right person. Thanks :smile:

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Mon 07/20/20 07:04 AM

Just think that she's as afraid as you and forge ahead.
Long, long ago I learned to think in terms of WHAT'S THE WORST THAT COULD HAPPEN?
Ask yourself that, in this case you could be rejected...........so what. laugh


Haha nice men thanks for that

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Mon 07/20/20 07:03 AM

if someone want to go you should never stop them......

karma has no deadline yet the most beautiful thing you can see


happiness is not what you do or have...happiness is what you think


you will never find that in another


In my opinion, what is happiness if you are alone, there are times that you need someone besides you, someone who can fill your emptiness, can share your joy and sadness. I do want to have a partner who I can be comfortable with even if it only last for an hour or a day, it's still better to have someone than to be alone

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Mon 07/20/20 06:01 AM
Edited by LoyD on Mon 07/20/20 06:03 AM

i think we are in the same track..im so shy, i am not too confident tomyswlf sometimes..having a boyfriend is very hard for me..i dont know if there still someone who will like me..


Yah I really feel you but I'll do my best to overcome this fear and try to change my way of thinking.

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Mon 07/20/20 05:59 AM
Edited by LoyD on Mon 07/20/20 06:04 AM

Indeed everyone has that fear. Mostly it has to do with fear of being rejected.
You can work on your self-esteem, which can help with that.
And start making it a habit to have small talk with people everywhere. People you don't know. Doesn't have to be long, just a few friendly things, a smile. Doing that helps to overcome fear of addressing strangers and will make it a bit easier to start talking to a girl.


I'll try :)

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Mon 07/20/20 05:56 AM
Edited by LoyD on Mon 07/20/20 05:57 AM

We all have that fear but eventually you learn and grow from it so don’t give up. Find some common ground with a girl, ask her what interests are in music, movies, tv shows, books and food and see if you like any of them yourself and tell her you do too and why. Ask her if she has a boyfriend and if not ask her what she’s looking for in a man. Start off as friends first then see where it takes you. Who knows it may turn into something serious along the way:thumbsup: :wink: . Good luck:thumbsup: !


:) Thanks for the advice

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Mon 07/20/20 01:11 AM
Btw I'm new here

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Mon 07/20/20 01:07 AM
I never had a girlfriend before and want to experience what it is to have a relationship but what ties me the most is about the shyness I have and fear of breaking up. What can I do in this situation.

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Mon 07/20/20 01:01 AM
Just wanna say hello :)