That is exactly how I meant it. That is also exactly how I took his reply. Thanks for the response. I thought I was way off by his actions since then.

But he is doing the distancing and it sucks. I'm all for giving it time to see how he works things out for his life, being a supportive friend. But with his distancing I am at a loss on what to say or do. I think he will push me away even if I say don't leave me out of your life - I will listen to you in a supportive way. So I think I should just leave it alone and let life take care of it.

i would hope that a band of renegade midgets showed up at my doorstep with studded bats and knives wearing bicycle shorts while riding unicycles to take me out like the last battle from the movie braveheart

now that would be wierd

It's okay, honey.... don't perseverate on her nescience.....



swooning

Here's another.

"The way you looked back in your 20's, with the way you think, we'd still be married today with 14 children."

Translation: You were hot then, you are not now. No way am I going to have sex or anything to do with you.

While kissing you say, I don't want to be a burden on your life. I enjoy kissing you. I enjoy your company.

He says in reply, "You would not be a burden on my life. It's just my life sucks (it truly does due to a messy divorce that has left him financially strapped) and I would not want to bring yours down."

More hugs and kisses. Then you part. He walks off thinking, "Now it's back to reality."

Translation - While I know my life sucks, I'm a glass 1/2 full guy and I deserve better than you.

We have the best of everything.

We are co-INdependent....friends that really route for each other to fly......and fly free of petty jealousies.

I would be a horrible person if I wanted to possess you like an object. I would rather visit and cherish your beauty like a sunset.

unfortunately for me ROFLMAO requires translation. Oxford education doesn't help it is outside Latin or the 5 languages that I am familiar with

who was that ?

I think we should just keep it quiet for a while, not rush things. We can meet family and friends later, once we decide where this is going to go. Besides, I want you all to myself.

Translation: You are a moped, and I'm not taking you out to meet anyone I know.

You're asking the wrong girl that question...I'm brutal.

I am not looking to get involved in a relationship right now.

Translation: You are not relationship material.