I't going good.

Ty Chefron...a flower from the heart is beautiful

What is it about
this thing called
love that keeps
us coming back?
It touches every
tender wound, and
keeps our Souls
intact. Love itself
is perfect and lives
within us all. Even
the most hardened
heart can soften and
learn to fall. Love
knows what it's doing
when it knocks upon
our door. It is a
living mystery that
keeps us wanting more.
Love alone is perfect
and has nothing to
hide. It shines in
the darkness bringing
light so that we try.
Love does not deceive
for all it knows is
Truth. It is present
to every living being
whether we are mature
or in our youth. Love
does not forsake, it
is people who do that.
Love abides next to us
sensing when we lack.
So is it any wonder
we so often run to
to love, for it blesses
us and gives and
teaches us to live.

JDS 04/24/08

If you see the scars upon my face,
don't look away like im a disgrace.
See me setting here in this wheelchair, yes its my CHAIR.
Please don't you point,and laugh,, Don't you Dare..
YOU, with the use of both your legs, why don't YOU CARE?
Just because im blind don't
think that I can't hear.
Every ugly whisper, when your near.
Here on this corner with my cardbord sign held high.
life has me this way right now, But at least I want to try.
I was born this way, its not my fault.
There is no need to call me names, PLEASE don't insult.
I have some differences to who you think I should be.
But THAT is YOUR expectations, CAN'T YOU SEE.
GOD made me for HIS reasons. He made me to be ME.
There's always going to be SOME,
who cannot see the beauty of me.
Some will stare and some will swear,
but ask me if I really care
I am me, with all you see,
and I am BLESSED to always be.
So take your bad thoughts.
Stop staring, like DAH,
I can't hear or I can't see.
If you really want to see me,
then take the time to talk to ME.
You will be AMAZED if you could
only trully see all of ME.

LOVE NEEDS NO EYES TO SEE OR FEEL,,,,,just to BE

I see this question posted all of the time in the personals section, so I thought I'd take a minute to explain things to the ladies out there that haven't figured it out.

What happened to all the nice guys?

The answer is simple: you did.

See, if you think back really hard, you might vaguely remember a platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He'd tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn't feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the other guy that you were screwing treated you.

At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, you denied having any romantic feelings for him, and told everyone that you were "just friends." Besides, he absolutely was not your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn't know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease.

Eventually, your platonic buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this other guy was, admittedly, a little weird, if you weren't dating him. More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on you, or became boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren't the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship. So, now, you're single again, and after having tried the bar scene for several months having only encountered players and douche bags, you wonder, "What happened to all the nice guys?"

Well, once again, you did.

You ignored the nice guy. You used him for emotional intimacy without reciprocating with physical intimacy. You laughed at his consideration and resented his devotion. You valued the aloof boyfriend more than the attentive platonic friend. Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life. He probably came to realize, one day, that women aren't really attracted to guys who hold doors open, or make dinners just because, or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted five months ago; or listen when you're upset, or hold you when you cry. He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he'd have to act more like the boyfriend that you had. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an asshole than he ever wanted to be.

The fact is, now, he's probably getting laid, and in a way, your ultimate rejection of him is to thank for that. And I'm sorry that it took the complete absence of "nice guys" in your life for you to realize that you missed them and wanted them. Most women will only have a handful of nice guys stumble into their lives, and only if they are lucky.

So, if you're looking for a nice guy, here's what you do:

1.) Build a time machine.
2.) Go back a few years and pull your head out of your ass.
3.) Take a look at what's right in front of you and grab a hold of it.

I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don't really want a nice guy, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to have matured beyond your infantile taste in men. In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality, shed his nice guy mantle and is out there looking to unleash his cynicism and resentment onto someone just like you.

If you were five years younger.

So please, either stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you've really screwed up. You're getting older, after all. It's time to excise the bull**** and deal with reality. You didn't want a nice guy then, and he certainly doesn't want you, at least not now.

Sincerely,

Jimmy F

An Actual Nice Guy

Hit .. Hit ..

G'morn.& may ur day be packed w/many milk bone bisquits.Woof!

woof woof,,,bark bark

morning. hope u have a wonderful day.

Morning

looks like its going to be another beautiful day

pretty good, ty

Bon matin!!

good mornin

*~*~*~*~Morning Chefron~*~*~*~*

Hope you have a wonderful day