yeah, im glad i didnt drop 25-30 bucks on dinner :X

I'm pissed because I wanted to see him coach in Allen Fieldhouse in a few weeks. I got to see him Coach in Oklahoma City last year, but it just wasn't the same. It was just 4 weeks away!

Why couldn't he just finish the season?!!

BTW, when I say bars...I mean buying alcohol in general. You can't exactly go out for a few drinks when you're underage...

lol, what?

Also, she describes herself as "open and honest."

Also, the funnier thing is...she IMed me like 5 straight times after I talked to her and was done with the convo...Then 3 hours later, she says to me "if you try contacting me again, the police are getting involved"

First off, she could just block me on AIM *she hasn't* and she was still continuing the convo after I was done.

just to back up this current girl is crazy...she still posts on her dead boyfriend's facebook wall as if he were alive.

****, my ex was pretty crazy....

That was on last month's bill

I don't really care anymore. Just wish she wasn't so naive...

It's harder to date older chicks because I'm not 21 and can't buy drinks at a bar...and younger girls are naive and/or immature and sometimes stupid. So it's just a rough age... I just want it to be March of 2009 already...

Well first off, I rushed what I wrote there..It was "i think I found what I was looking for on here."... It was basically just to get it disabled (because you have to have your profile approved)...

Still, if she wants to block me out of her life for that, that's pretty lame. It's not like I was telling her that I love her or anything.

I still don't believe I did anything wrong, she just checked up on me way too much and read into things and she misinterpreted it.

So according to her this is what I did wrong:

-I took down my yahoo ad (and I had to write something to get it taken down so I said I found what I was looking for...she read it)
-I didn't get the "hint" she wasn't interested after she rescheduled the date.

How ****ing stupid is that??

I'm sorry but when someone goes "Hey, I can't do lunch because my niece is coming this week, but I will come to Lawrence (where I live) next week"...that's not exactly a good hint, that's straight up rescheduling.

And taking down my personal ad on the internet is a bad thing? I had to write something for my profile to get taken down, so I did what would do that... It's not my fault she read it by looking at it??? And wouldn't that mean she was interested at what I was doing...

Guys arent very hard to understand.

sports...beer...sex

very doubtful considering her facebook and myspace age and you can't exactly fake your facebook age considering she's had it for a few years now and she wouldn't be faking it back then.

^^

She pursued me more than I pursued her (she always initiated the texting)...Hell, I didn't even give her my number. And there was nothing I said that could have seriously made her say "this guy is weird, I'm bailing on him"

Well, I'm doing that, but the fact that I turned down a girl because I was thinking this other girl might work out is bothering me...

Not really a great answer for me, though...

LOL, her yahoo personals ad is still up... It'd be nice if she could just say "hey, I'm not interested" but she couldnt even do that.

This one girl just confuses the hell out of me, and I feel a little disappointed because of what happened.

To make a really long story somewhat shorter... I first saw her on yahoo! personals. She is a year younger than me, she sent me an icebreaker, I sent one back... I noticed somehow she got her AIM screenname on there. I tried IM'ing her but she was on her AIM mobile and didn't respond. A few days later, I was thinking of ways to get a hold of her, when it occurred to me that some people use their AIM screenname as their myspace URL. I found her old profile, and asked one of her friends to add me on myspace, which she did. She then added me on facebook.

That night, I had to work, and while I was work, she texted me (my facebook has my number listed), and I had no idea who it was until I looked back at any earlier text saying it was her. I took that as a good sign and I didn't mind it, despite it being completely creepy if it was I texting her (which is kind of a double standard, by the way)...We texted quite a bit to each other and I was hoping for a date...She said we should meet so I said okay...I'll take you to lunch on that Sunday (it was Wednesday or something)...She kept telling me how excited she was for it, which made me happy. She also said that if we didn't click right away, I seemed like I would make a great friend. She lives 40 mins away, but goes to school and works halfway between us. I was going to come to that halfway point for lunch.

Anyways, the night before, she told me her niece was coming into town and she needed to convince her mom that she could go (she lives with her mom, despite her being 18 ). I figured she'd still come, but around 10 PM, she said it wouldn't be happening, but she'd come see me the following weekend. Well, that was supposed to be this last weekend...And I haven't talked to her since Monday when she posted on my myspace wall. I didn't say anything wrong to her (in fact, I didn't really say anything). On Wednesday, she deleted me from her myspace, deleted my comment on her facebook wall...And after sending a message asking what her deal was, has now blocked me on facebook.

I don't get it, she was coming onto me strongly, and I was simply responding to her and I didn't say anyting wrong. Usually, I know when I **** something up, and I didn't do ANYTHING wrong, didn't call her when I was drunk or anything.

I don't know if I should call her and ***** her out or what. I know I didn't really waste money on her or anything, but I thought she would have been worthwhile to date. I've been hurt worst in the past, but I just want to know what the hell made her stop talking to me...

Any ideas on what it could be? Her only ex is dead, he died from cancer while they were dating about 2 years ago...So it's not like her ex is dating her again, and she even said we could be good friends if we didn't date.