sorry to hear about your loss as well.. I guess time is the only real band aid and the wound never fully heals.

I have kids and have never had to deal with the loss of a close family member.. I guess I've been lucky that way..

heh.. not that kind of roommate..

It's under investigation.. probably a robbery would be my guess.. He was a medical device sales rep and it happened close to the hospital.. he was probably wearing scrubs and looked alot like a doctor with alot of expensive surgical equipment..

just a guess though. nothing will be known or released for a few days..

I know there is lots of people on here that have had to deal with many problems like this, so I just need to get this off my chest and get some advice from those that have had to go through it.

I just found out tonight that my best friend and ex-roommate from college was brutally beaten and stabbed to death last night..

He was only 31 years old.. and right now.. it doesn't make sense.. Probably one of the nicest guys I have ever known.. Just getting to a point in his life where things were starting to roll in a good direction.

Now he's gone and I never had a chance to say goodbye to him..

Probably some senseless random killing..

No rhyme or reason, and one life is over.

insurance salesman

agree with everyone so far.. it sounds like he is stringing you along (i.e. playing games).. you need to move on, or at least quit showing interest in him for a week (play with his mind).. better to be in control than let him.

You're to cute for this.. I say - move on.

How can you be so cold, cruel and heartless, did it really hurt you to have someone on their friend list? Did it bother you that much that you needed to cut down someone that was already in the dumps?

How could you do that to me?

heh.. no, just kidding.. I agree with you.. sometimes people just aren't friends. or are, and later aren't as they grow up or grow apart.. it happens..

people need to move on. :) find new friends.

Welcome, where is Fordtran?

(sigh) if only I weren't already married..

You're very pretty.. and.. very clear about what you want.. Here's to you finding it.. I'm sure you will..

I'm just on here to find friends and kill some time.. But I can tell you that it's just one way of many to meet people.. and meeting people is the first step to finding someone who you can fall in love with.

Probably more likely to find someone online that you are compatiable with than going to the bar on saturday night.

Then again, you're more likely to find someone at the bar to have sex with.. but in my experience that person is usually someone you're not compatiable with (as good as the sex may have been)...

Get through one day at a time.. I can't imagine your pain.. I have 4 kids..

My prayers are with you.

Yeah, you're cute.. pretty eyes..

Are you serious? you think that was real? She didn't shed a tear when the WTC was attacked.. but you think she's really crying because campaigning is so very hard?

Poor Hillary.. living on the road and eating pizza every day (yeah right.. )

I wonder what would happen if any of the other candidates broke down because it's so hard. Let's see Obama cry and see what happens..

No to Hillary.. if for one reason, she wants to raise taxes and ruin healthcare by implementing a single payer system.. which is retarded. (ok, that was two reasons)..

Scuba diving is a blast.. you will love it..

I want to take one of my no limit credit cards and buy drinks all night long for everyone in a small bar.

Seems like I may have already done that once, but I can't remember the end of that night.. :)

or a marine. :)

It's not fun to think about.. but the fact is that someone somewhere needs to think about things to help prevent them.

however, wouldn't want that to be my job..

I will refrain from posting in the fear you will take my ideas and run with them..

yeah, I have thought of all sorts of ways to wreak havoc on the world that haven't been done.. fortunatly I'm sane enough that those will all stay safely in my head.

But it does make me afraid enough of the things that could be done that haven't been.

Not really the way I envisioned this topic going..

Who knows where you end when you post an idea online.. heh

don't need surgery myself, but if there was something I didn't like and thought it would make me feel better, I wouldn't think twice about having something done.

In the same light, I don't think I would look down or think badly of anyone who had something done.

Well there's one you won't find on my list.. good luck with that.. let us know how it goes.