You say it has nothing to do with past partners yet from what you just explained it has everything to do with past partners......so which exactly is it..........I'm so confused...

Does this make any sense to anyone?

Actually she's 26

I haven't paid for anything for her. As a matter of fact she insisted on paying when we went out.

So, you wanna have some "coffee"?

Ask questions....Women love to talk about themselves. Don't ask anything to personal starting out though cause that can end badly. Keep it light and witty. Also use any opportunity you can to make her laugh and/or smile. No lame jokes though. just be yourself and be confident. Don't slouch, sit or stand straight and look her in the eyes when your talking to her not at her breasts/cleavage. It's really not hard to talk to women once you get in your head that they are just people like you and me. Treat them with respect and dignity and be confident with your words and you should be fine.

Thanks

You can't go through life blaming every man you meet for the sins of your previous partners. I suppose you could go through life alone, but that's no way to live. Not everyone in this world is a liar. You have to take a leap of faith every time you enter a relationship with someone new. You have to start anew with a clean slate.

My advice would be to take your time and get to know someone as a friend before you decide to be intimate with them. That way you will find out what they are really about long before you decide to be with them. I'm not saying this is fool proof because some people do change when they enter a relationship but at least you'll have an idea whether you want to take that chance or not.

I was here before with no luck. Mostly due to the fact that there aren't many active members in my area I think. Well, I'm back, I'm single, I'm ready for something more out of life.

I should also mention that I am straight and only interested in dating women, although it never hurts to have more friends.

I am not making excuses, lol. I already said in my original post that I am on the verge of removing her from my life altogether. I was only giving further details.

A couple more details.....

The first time we dated I broke off the relationship because I didn't want to commit and she clearly did. I had a hard time at that point with admitting that I loved her and it was easier to end it if that makes any sense. I'm 100% positive that she was in love with me at the time, no doubt about it.

She's been separated for over 7 months now and he lives in another state. She broke it off with him, not the other way around. those are the reasons that I decided to go out with her again.

OK here's the situation....
I dated this girl for about 2 years about 5 years ago and then we broke up mainly because I was being dumb and didn't realize what I had until after it was gone.
Ok, so since we broke up neither of us spoke to each other for that 5 year stretch during which she got married and separated. Then about a month and a half ago out of the blue she contacts me and wants to go out. I agreed because I still had feelings for her and we got along great. So good in fact that after just a few days we were pretty much back to being "together".
Then after about a week and a half of that she breaks up with me out of the blue. Didn't speak to me for almost a month and then once again out of the blue I get a text "I wanna go to the bar tonight. I wanna go with you." word for word. Then three hours later she texts me to cancel those plans. That was about 5 days ago. Haven't heard from her since.
So I am fricken confused and about to just delete and block her number and get rid of any and every trace of her from my life.
Any advice would be great.

Let me start by saying that I think any human being that rapes another human being against their will should be strung up by their privates and raped by a horse.
With that said I think that if more women would report these violations then there would be more done about it. As stated in the survey that you posted 75% of the women raped never reported it. If you witness someone stealing your car and you don't call the police and report it do you really think that your ever going to see your car again? NO!
What can be done about a crime that no one but the victim and the violator know about? And I'm pretty sure the rapist isn't going to tell on him/herself.