I am a single man, a good one. i have been on this site for a week, and and basically nothing has come of it. why?? i am so much fun, i used to have so many friends and was always part of the "in" crowd. then i get married, grow up, tell my party friends to take a hike cuz its time to be responsible. now i am going thru divorce, trying to make friends, and it is tuff. i am at a weird age to be single. i cant hang with my little brother and his friends, cuz im "old creepy guy", and all my peers are married with kids and have zero time to spend with single people, which i get cuz i did the same thing to others when i was married. but holy cow, why cant i just find a friend, a platonic one- cuz thats really all i need is someine to talk to, spend a little time with here and there, u know... so heres your answer- where are the good guys? here is one right here- anxious crazy style waiting to find friends. now i ask you- where are all the good girls at? i dont even care about age cuz i am so diverse in my tastes and interests, time belongs to me. so, where u at????????