i'm just trying to get people's opinion on this cause i want too ask a girl i know out but i'm joining the military and depending on my asvabs score i could get a contract up to 8 years and i don't wanna ask her out cause if i ask her out and she says yes and i leave to bct etc, she might not wait for me.

so do you think i should ask this girl out or stay friends with her?

i'm at the point of my life it's either keep doing what i love -djing- or do i serve and i have thought of this for a long time so i'm finally going to enlist and was hoping someone who has served would reply to this telling me how their basic training was.

i am capable of turning a firearm on a person if i'm told to do so as it will be my duty.

thanks esebulldog i didn't know that i'ma look into that right now before i go to the appointment.

i have an appointment with an army recruiter today in a few hours so if anyone has served can you give me some advice before i go to the appointment.

ok i saw this video on youtube of some really nerdy guy thats 30 something years old that's a librarian that lives with his mother and it might sound like i'm trying to make fun of him.

but i'm not this guy has allot of heart and is just overall awesome

his name is Eugene
and it just made my day what he says,
hope you guys enjoy his Poetry.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X2sG6S4dwxk

so sense i'm not a "bad boy" it automatic means i'm some wimpy azz nice guy?

just cause your a nice person doesn't mean your a wimp, and just for the record i know allot of nice people that are in the military that aren't no wimps,

i'd rather be a nice person then some fake pansy acting like a bad boy trying to get girls like that, and by the way i see people at gigs acting like their a bad azz in the club when it comes down to it they're all talk i have seen so many people being that "bad boy" in a club get knocked out while i was dj'ing so yeah all i can say is be your self and if you think your a "bad boy" don't let it go to your head cause not all nice guys are weak and when push comes to shove those bad boys allways treat those girls that fall for them like crap.

but yeah their is alot of women who don't like bad boys though.

allot of the time in a relationship the women would love the man more then the man would love the women.

what was the worst place you have been taken too on a first date?

and how did your worst date end up?

your shinning. Breeze & Style

ya i know that but when you're not hands to jesus what would you talk about...

it's a really beautiful song if you listen to the lyrics its hardcore music so not everyone will enjoy this genre of music but if you decide too listen to it i hope you enjoy it.

and feedback telling me what you think of this song.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K5gWFkC75A0

if you listen to the song lyrics it's a good too be on a dating site.

thanks for sharing

no offence but i could care less what other people see me with nor do i care if their jealous cause i'd be a young beautiful women i could care less about looks i look for personality not attractiveness.
but hey if you wanna be seen with a young beautiful women more power to yah

thank you for sharing i really appreciate it.

thanks for the feedback.

and i don't want to offend no one by me saying this but.

if anyone men are of the age of 40+ please just reply or even just pm me if you're shy or embarrassed to say

but are you looking for younger women just to show off that you got a young girl, just trying to get laid.

and if you are a older man and have dated a girl in that age range could you tell me what you guys did like what you had in common.

i'm only 19 and curious i like to ask stupid questions like this all the time and i figured ask older people who might know or who has experienced dating someone younger that could share experience

thanks everyone who read this and who was willing to take time out of their day to reply.

i see allot of men searching for younger girls

can someone tell me why men in general are looking for that tight young 18 petite or what ever.

i mean like yeah a few years younger or older is ok but when you're 50+ looking for an 18 year old girl can i just ask why i mean like i wouldn't mind dating a girl that's like 26 but when theirs a 30-35+ year gap in age difference what would you really have in common or what would you talk about.

and for the women searching for younger men same thing.

this is mostly towards men but i'd like to hear some women's perspective on this post.

Edit: if anyone gets offended by my question i'm truly sorry i'm just curious is too why.

if you really liked a girl/guy allot and they were a gold digger but you had allot of feelings for that said person how would you handle this situation i'm just curious to see how you would respond to a gold digger that you loved.

i went on a blind date it went horrible

i got arrested


and i had to pay a fine.

i'm sorry to hear that you where cheated on but you have a daughter relationships end daily for multiple reasons at least you can you got a daughter out of it that will forever love you.

the bi-sexual and enjoys 3-somes is a good thing too look for in a perfect girl