Good......You will find a descent man, your a smart and pretty girl.
You deserve better...Don't you?

Then go with option 2...run don't walk to Lovers Lane and get yourself a very nice toy. Great stress relievers and only you will know you have one. Trust me on this, they work wonders!

The thing is that people ask for advice, and then when they get it they don't listen.
Listen to the people that have been down that road and have lived through the same thing.
One time when I was younger, I was standing in the bathroom using the bathroom at a urinal. Someone had written above ...You now hold your future in your hands. I never realized how true that was, and women that goes for you too.
So quit thinking with your%%%% and use your head. You know down deep that it is not going to work, and you even said so yourself.
So don't do it.
Don't put yourself through that misery again.
Listen to all your friends here at J.S.H.

I guess my question would be what has happened to make him change from the non-loving, disrespectful jerk he was before? And do you feel this is a real change or just temporary to get you back into his life. I would think long and hard about this before heading down that same road again. I think I would rather be alone then to settle for less than you deserve. I say keep looking, your prince is out there you just haven't found him yet. =) Sometimes you have to kiss a lot of frogs but in the end it will be all worth it. Good Luck sweetie!

Sounds like you just answered your own question.
If it,s going to turn out to be the same way it was before then why put yourself through it.
For Petes sake get a vibrator if you want good sex

Why don't BOTH of you start getting some help & see what happens. You still care, or you wouldn't be considering this.
Education can change people, we went to the Omaha YWCA, seperate groups & then couples counseling. Put things back together, BETTER than the beginning.
Takes WORK & a real desire to be together, FOREVER.

Want more info.; drop me a mail.
COUNSELING DOES WORK

INTENTION = RESULTS

the tell him that ur sorry and you just cant have him in ur life...i know that when i was with my ex he slowly crushed my spirt, tryed to change just about everything about me, and he was a verrry mean person, and he was a drunk...and he seemed to know exactly what to say to make me cry....and when he was trying to get me back he made me cry too many times to count..."the only one who's worth ur tears wont make you cry" either cut him out completly...or lay down rules and stick with them...maybe he doesnt realize what he was doing...my ex didnt till got the guts and ripped him apart about it...

dont do it for real looks bad sounds bad so probley will be bad

I know exactly how ur feeling right now..my ex popped back into my life and we were engaged....and none of my friends or family like him....but u just need to look into ur self...and if u think that he's the one you want to be with then go for it agian....ur friends and family will come around in time...you being happy should be the most important thing for them and if he makes u happy then they should come around...if you dont want to Date him agian make it clear, i mean CRYSTAL CLEAR, that you dont want to date him anymore...but offer to stay friends with him...Just make sure if u decide not to see him as a boyfriend...make sure he understands that...it might be hard for a while...u never know there might still be the one for u out there

How did he treat you during the relationship and why did you break up on bad terms? I would consider that before thinking about getting back with him. I understand about being lonely but sometimes it is better to be alone than to be mistreated.

Top of the morning to ya. Come over and have the craic

Ya u can have mine too, It just melted and now they are saying more for tomarrow here in Nebraska!!