I'm never had much luck period. Especially online though. I avoid it most of the time because it'll just wreck my self esteem. I'll be in a good place, feeling good enough about myself to think i'm ready for a relationship and it just tears me down.

It's more like, I never get these types of responses in person. Never. Not one single time in my life has anyone told me to "dont message them again" or "you're crazy". But online, wow, yall just let anything fly huh?

So when you are used to people being generally friendly with you and smiling at you, its weird to get online and have someone not be excited to talk to you or not to talk to you at all. just weird.

Ive tried everything, like being on all the sites and apps, this is the only site im on now. Ive tried writing serious profiles, funny profiles, sexy profiles, and nothing seems to work, at all. Like I get it. I mean, if im a female and there are 20,000 messages for me everyday, why would they even read mine?

I do take the time to write a personalized message, but with a 1/100 response rate like, you get annoyed with it. So i'm just here not really GAF. like really.

I'm probably going to end up deleting this too, its just too much for my ego, Iill be fine until like the 100th girl ignores my message, which again, I get it. But im not really interested in investing time into something that probably wont result in anything.

like statstically, lets say about 3 out of 100 women respond, what are the chances of any of those three escalating into a relationship? not likely.

Im at a point in my life that I know what works and what doesnt, I know what I want and what I dont want. I just got out of a very long relationship because I tried to settle. You just end up unhappy, forget that. I'm not doing that again. My standards are not high at all, but they are there atleast.

So im probably not going to be messaging anyone, im just going to let whoever is interested message me. There is literally no point in messaging everyone, atleast if they message me I know they are interested.

Saddest thing is to, I know a large majority of the women on this app would probably be interested in person and are at home alone, reading messages from guys that they arent even interested in. Im packing too, like 10 inches, I know alot of guys exaggerate, but it's legitimate. Im not here to brag, this is not a personal ad. I was just pointing out the saddest fact in this whole scenario.

I really dont care if you know me in person, cause if you knew me in person you would know I really dont care.

Curious how much luck anyone else has had?