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Fri 08/22/08 02:30 AM
I'm not like most men, I'll give a girl a rose for the heck of it I don't need an occasion for it.

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Fri 08/22/08 02:24 AM
I know what I have to do and I'm doing it tomorrow, I'm sure she'll forgive me and we'll move forward passed this. I know plenty ladies that still like flowers from their guys and I know of some girls that like it when their guy shows some jealousy.

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Fri 08/22/08 01:59 AM
Everyone here agrees, I got friends I've talked to and they agree it's wrong for someone to be on a dating site...

Maybe it's just ok for a girl to be on a dating site but if a guy were to do it, he's a cheating dog

and yes I mentioned earlier on here that I did flirt with a girl on myspace but I also mentioned that I apologized

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Fri 08/22/08 01:48 AM
Well I was her man, we were awesome when together and 24/7 texted each other when apart since we met from this site.

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Fri 08/22/08 01:29 AM
Nobody really dumped anyone really, we're at mutual dumps. I dumped her for being on the dating site and she dumped me for flirting with another girl on myspace... I apologized and am surprising her with roses tomorrow... I'm not a cheater never have and never will.

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Fri 08/22/08 01:05 AM
Normally I'm not jealous but come on hearing her admit that she's still on a dating site has to spark up some emotion.

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Fri 08/22/08 12:58 AM
Quote from her on Myspace 4 days ago

"So as some of you know, I was seeing someone for about a month. Well after all the jelousy crap ... I couldnt take it anymore .. so yea I'm completely free again!!!! "

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Fri 08/22/08 12:32 AM
I haven't been on the site since meeting her, I asked her one day out of the blue and she admitted that she did.

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Fri 08/22/08 12:29 AM
Is it still ok for one of those persons to log into an online dating site? the girl I'm seeing says she talks to a girl and that's it... I want to belive her but at the same time should I?

We've been seeing each other a little over a month now without the "gf,bf" title. I've treated her very well and I feel that she likes me but there shouldn't be a reason for her to be on a dating site.

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Sun 07/06/08 12:00 PM
I'm not controlling her, she can do whatever she wants aside from smoking

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Sun 07/06/08 11:53 AM

well you new that straight up in the beginning i think after she gets to know ya better she will make her decission but if you accept her all good and bad habits are something you have to deal with is she worth it. dont exspect to change her it would not be right to try and change you right maybe she feels you need to change somethink she does not like are you willing?:wink:


I didn't know she did at the beginning, she randomly texted me last night saying she needed a cigarette when she went out drinking. Yes I'd be willing to quit a habit of mine for her.

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Sun 07/06/08 11:46 AM
Smoking is a turn off of mine. Last night I found out she smokes cigarettes. She told me she doesn't do it except for when she's drunk or stressed out, I asked her to not smoke around me and she said ok. We've only been dating a month, is it right for me to have her quit right away?

My ex wife used to smoke all the time and she quit for me after a few months of dating.

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Wed 07/02/08 11:18 PM
she's sticking around cause i've treated her better than any guy in her passed. i've told her it will only get better as i get to know her

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Wed 07/02/08 11:16 PM
i got lots on my mind thats why i keep responding. i will reread everyones advice and gather my thoughts

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Wed 07/02/08 11:12 PM
my current gf does want marriage we've talked about that, i'm willing to do it in the future

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Wed 07/02/08 11:11 PM
I think she should believe in me in my words... i am trying to fix this now i can't fix this overnight, it's only 320 but it's still too much when i got no job. now i got a job but gotta catch up on much needed bills

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Wed 07/02/08 11:09 PM
she wants to keep seeing each other but take things slower... we've seen each other each week since we met which was the 8th of last month.

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Wed 07/02/08 11:07 PM
I'm listening just tough to keep up with so many thoughts bigsmile

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Wed 07/02/08 11:04 PM
she says she still wants to keep seeing each other

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Wed 07/02/08 11:01 PM
Bluesky I agree believe might've been a better choice, but trust does start now so that's why i chose trust.

6 months is a long time I can't guaranetee I'll be availabe for her since we do live far apart, same with her she can find a closer guy and lead to me being ticked off cause the space i gave her just opened the window for someone else.