O.K. here goes, talk about Newbie...I qualify. It's always good to have the parameters of any given situation explained so along those lines could someone clue me in to what is considered appropriate once you have connected. One individual wants me to call him to ask questions I have posted rather tan answeer on line and I am a little nervous about that. Good lord it has been a very long time since I tried to actively interact with men in a effort to find someone to share life with. Very scary stuff, and advice is welcome providing you follow Kojack example, thank you sir.