Referencing the whole "no transgendered" thing here, of course. There's no reason it couldn't be an option when they put their gender in their profile. And it's not a sexual fetish, so there's nothing "extreme" about having it here. Nobody is ever going to get used to these people if we keep shoving them into the fetish ghetto.

That's a really messed-up policy. I suppose next you will call someone extreme if they're missing an eye and wearing a prosthesis.

I have my own thoughts about that whole nature of gender, and why anyone feels the need for surgical correction, kind of thing. But they are who they are. You know, if everyone self-disclosed those parts of themselves that were problematic, I'd have never married and I wouldn't have dated 2/3rds of the guys I've dated because I'd have known ahead of time and could avoid them. You don't make people self-disclose here when they're cheaters, narcissists, sociopaths... But you'll pick on the transgendered. Well, guess which groups do more damage. Quit catering to people who are extremely in the closet (let's face it, otherwise they could just say "sorry, not interested" and move on) and get with the 21st century.

Just saying.