As a "victum" of women myself, it seems harder and harder to find a good
woman. You are still very young in age and all I can say is that you
need to look past their looks and see what they are like on the inside.
Now I'm not saying looks dont matter, because you can tell alot from the
way a person carries themselves. You just need to ask yourself are they
making themself appear that way just to impress someone or are they
trully that way. Social dating is a plus, because it allows you to see
how they are around others. And you shouldnt do it for just a couple of
dates. To see them for who they truly are it should go atleast 5 or 6
casual dates before any serious thought about being "exclusive".

cool thanks for the info

the one that does it to me is the opening and closing poems of Nights in
Whit Satin by The Moody Blues

and btw are there any shortcuts for getting around in the forum?

what time zone?? lol

Well glad to see that people move around in the different forums here ty
all who relied to mine. so when are the busiest times on this site
anyone know?

The "act" of tring to find your "true love" is a hard act to preform.
And the way I see it is that is the problem in a nutshell. It seems in
todays world people are looking for whos right for them, but, whos right
for the society of friends that they are surronded by. We feel we must
put on an act to intice someone into becoming interested in us. And it
doea work, until the act wears off and we begin to see each other for
who we really are. Thats when the problems begin. Now if we would just
be ourselves from the begining, we would know from the onset if we are
compatible for the other. But hey what do I know, I'm just winging it
here.(LOL)

Welcome to all that read this. I am new to this site, as a matter of
fact I just signed up today. I am also kinda new to this "meeting people
online" thing. I am an old fashion type of guy and usually meet people
the old fasion way of going out.(LOL) But since having my son that has
pretty much gone the way of the Dodo bird. I am looking for someone who
is of the same faith as I, however, I do realize that that may be to
difficult of a standard to have. We are few, and are generally frowned
upon as quacks. And even though I live in Utah, I am not Mormon. I am a
single father of a 2yo boy. He means everything to me. I am however
gaining a new respect for all those single moms out there. I have always
known it was tough for them, but, it is alot more sobering when you have
to do it yourself. Well anyways I could probably go on forever but lets
see if anyone responds first.