I believe a persons maturity and general outlook on life is good or bad by their thirties, and they should know who they are. The problem is that I meet men of all ages that don't know who they are or what they want in life, then are angry and blame others for problems everyone could endure, not just them. Young is inside and maturity is respect, kindness, and a soulful nature that prevails in many. I have met immature older and younger men, and very old young men to boot, lol. I am smarter than when I was 20 and more complete as well, I like me and am not so insecure about the "Joneses" lol.