How.....when...where??? personally I don't believe in soulmates , it is a beautiful thought but totally unrealistic cuz life is about change , nothing and no one stays the same forever & it's rare to find a person who is willing to go through life and experience all those changes with u , throughout ur life u will have many different types of love & some will probably last longer than others .. just live in the moment & enjoy the person ur with |
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Open relationship
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What are your thoughts on the matter to each their own ... that's WHY it's called a PRIVATE LIFE .. everyone has the right to live their life their way & and open relationship can only work if there's mutual trust , honesty & respect , u gotta be up front not only with ur partner but with whomever u may see on the side |
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Sex on first date
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Does sex on first date make the Lady cheap No .. btw why is it always the ' Lady ' who is though badly of I mean the Guy is also doing it , so WHY is it acceptable for a man to behave a certain way & not a woman ??? |
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Hi, I am married male. Ever since I heard and watched the stories of other swingers. i am curious to experience this lifestyle. Even though pakistan is a conservative society but i am surprised to see that many couples from here are already enjoying it. So, I am curious to know your experiences in Swinging. I shared the idea to my wife. She is reluctant to give it a try. In heated moments she says Yes but then retracted from the idea later on. So, my question to all other married people who are already into this lifestyle that how is it going for you. it's natural 2b curious but u should never force or guilt or talk ur partner into anything that they're not already into cuz in the long run they will end up resenting u , also IF u or ur spouse get easily jealous , possessive controlling or fall in love easily then I can tell you right now The swinging lifestyle or an open relationship will not work .. IF u decide on any alternative lifestyle then u need to be upfront about ur expectations & limitations & u need 2b respectful of those boundaries |
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How to date a Mature lady?
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any tips regarding dating a mature lady in Mingle? DONT treat them as an old lady just talk to them as u would anyone else |
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Do u ever think abt her/him
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Do u ever think abt yo first love n wat is it that stands tall yes sometimes , not in a romantic way , it's purely sentimental |
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Marriage or Cohabitation?
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It seems many of the younger generation 18 to 30 are choosing living together over marriage, maybe some of these couples have set a date and will marry later on, some will not have, and they may never marry each other.
Do you think the 21st century way relationships will go for the majority is cohabitation without a marriage commitment? Is cohabitation commitment enough in a relationship? would you buy a house without walking through it first ?? would you buy a car without driving it first ?? it's the same with marriage , by by living together for at least a year you really truly get to know a person and after all if you can't even make it a year living with a person dealing with their personality or with their odd ways they tend to do things then marriage won't work .. u really have to know a person before you commit to a life with them and only true way you didn't know that person is to really live with them and be around them 24/7 , 2c their moods their behavior the way they live their life the way they save or spend money ECT ...my parents always told us to live with someone for at least 2 years before we marry them and they were right . my living with someone before marriage you at least know exactly what to expect there aren't any real surprises after all if someone is sloppy and you're a neat freak or if they're violent then that is good information to have before you are legally bound to them |
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tips about getting a gf
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any advice would be great be urself , the right woman will appreciate u |
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I think friends with benefits will be a good sign to avoid problems in relationships because if they interest ted in each other they go an ahead right there's nothing wrong with being in an open relationship & having a FWB on the side , as long as everyone is up front about their situation feelings expectations as well as their limitations .. It's different for everyone |
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Could be wrong but is this a Google Translate botch job for saying, "I just want sex"? its NOT always Abt sex .. sometimes it's Abt the companionship . sometimes married couples just intimately grow apart , it doesn't mean that they have stopped loving each other or that they don't want 2b together , it just means that they need something NEW & IF a Couple can agree to an open marriage without any problems then that's a good thing |
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To me, an open relationship is for people who don't want, or afraid of commitment. But, you do you. not in my situation , I've been with my hubby 25yrs ,16yrs of those are married & I've only been in an open marriage the last 6yrs , my hubby always comes first , he's disabled & I'm home with him mostly 24/7 , I only go out once or twice a month & only for 3hrs & we never have any drama ... but everyone is different |
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Any age restrictions are there for dating? It's a personal preference , everyone is different |
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This question has been on my mind for a while but for all the cougars out there what age in guys are you looking for like young guys 18 to 20 or older like 20 to 30?
Have a good day guys 21 -38 is the age range .. but age & maturity don't go hand in hand .. for me it's all Abt the VIBE ... |
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