Hiker, I think she means that it has not yet happened to her and that it never will.............run into a sexual predator, that is.

hahaha, I told you who did that right??? I mean one of him doing lude and licivious things to himself....

This sounds interesting

A leopard doesn't change his spots, and a man's innate character does NOT change over time.

First lesson: you CAN'T change him, ladies. Who he is when you meet him is WHO HE IS. He doesn't suddenly become a "deadbeat"...he always was one.

No, man the pool was indoors, she came outside to smoke. Everyone knows smokers aren't allowed in public places anymore. We are "unclean" much like lepers.

Not yet and hopefully never!

Boobfart threads....

Serenity NOW....

I came in here to unwind after my daughter's team lost for the first time. They were completely negative tonight. Anyway, I I see people ranting and insulting and being fake and hardly any of the usual upbeat threads that are usually posted. What's up with that? Why are alot of people in a negative mood tonight?

Of course just keep the blind closed!

I can tie a cherry stem into a knot inside my mouth.

Can turn my tongue upside down ...

hmmm
Was gonna add another, but it also has to do with oral dexterity ... must re-think this a bit!

I think internet friends are sillier. Not to offend anyone here, but if I want a friend I'll go talk to someone I know.

Not quite. I got two in the same day on another site. Both women were in Lago, Nigeria to open an art exhibition. Should have had them look each other up. But one was from Sweden because her mother was Swedish. The other was Finnish because her mother was from Finland.

Anyway, I guess now we see why they continue to do this...it actually WORKS! I'm speechless

The possibility that it is a scam letter is very good but so is the possibility that you have attracted someone who is from a radically different culture who has a huge crush on you.

In our arrogance as American's we often forget that the internet does not recognize borders and frequently what we post goes to a world wide audience that has vastly different customs. Considering that in my humble opinion we should think before we slur other cultures who already have frequently seen us as rude, spoiled, hateful, and selfish elitests that can't accept a profuse compliment graciously and resort to making religious insults and publicly disgraceing men. Hardly flattering to people who are our peers but worse in a world that already has more than enough reason to hate us.

Wheather you wish to acknowledge, accept, or even consider his "proposal" is absolutely your choice. (Personally I don't recommend it but that has more to do with never accepting any relationship that is based on blind infatuation rather than long distance love or cross cultural love because they can be wonderful even if they are difficult.) As is your right to discuss it in this forum but what you and other's have said doesn't show a lot of grace or tolerance for for a man who may have given you the compliment of your life, and his, by professing his adoration for you in a situation where he well could have been expected to marry within his own circles or to please family or mentors that would have most likely NOT picked you; a stranger on a web site, but someone he knew almost as remotely.

Since I really think the majority of this post is "hypothetical" what if is the case? What if you also offended who ever was involved in him chooseing you. Maybe you have insulted a highly educated successful worldly bussinessman you may need later in life or his family? Maybe he is the highly skilled heart surgeon, or banking executive that owns the shopping mall in your community, or any of his multitude of possible friends or family members who could hate you for humilateing him into suicide to save face. In some cultures to be rejected publicly is huge. Something to think of.

Probably what is more important to consider is the legions of guys who have walked the long walk back across the dance floor after a rejection and while might think his approach as pathetic or whatever they will remember the betrayal of the kiss and tell and probably read your profile to see who to avoid.

Or what if you are just being used as and example proving that Americans are



Is the text of the letter perfectly written? Nope but then considering it is in a second language and I don't know that many American's who have mastered English maybe I would cut him the slack of not publicly dogging his effort. It is not like he said anything vulgar or disrespecting.