Sun 03/16/08 08:42 PM
lets not forget the taking care of oneself along with pro skills. now that i help take care of a family member who ignored his health, even though he was a professional, he had a severe stroke at 56 and now must rely on others to survive. he partied the last 30 thirty years and now, well it is sad.there is not one old girlfriend that will help him now. what love?
a lot of well meaning people ignore the data and live in denial about living with obesity. pleasingly plump is understandable to come with age, but outright obesity is a conditional disease that dissuades and repel otherwise interested parties from pairing up with the abundant crowds of big woman that feed into the billion dollar diet industry and dating sites.
no offense please to those that fit the bill. my own family has it share like America on whole of obese well meaning citizens.
it is unhealthy and the medical cost are high to treat what a modest diet would cure and add years to ones life.
it is economical to be healthy. it is loving to be healthy because the one you love will care all the more for someone that takes care of their basic health. May we all live long and prosper.

lets not forget the taking care of oneself along with pro skills. now that i help take care of a family member who ignored his health, even though he was a professional, he had a severe stroke at 56 and now must rely on others to survive. he partied the last 30 thirty years and now, well it is sad.there is not one old girlfriend that will help him. what love?
a lot of well meaning professionals ignore the data and live in denial about living with obesity. pleasingly plump is understandable to come with age, but outright obesity is a conditional disease that dissuades and repel otherwise interested parties from pairing up with the abundant crowds of big woman that feed into the billion dollar diet industry and dating sites.
no offense please to those that fit the bill. my own family has it share like America on whole of obese well meaning citizens.

yo,
thanks dude.
more power to the all the romantics in this world.
may you find all the deep passionate love there is.
truth is, it need only be one.

okay.
lets set the record straight. I was once all passion as a young man fresh out of college. I first married a young lady in high school. I tried sending her to college and she dropped all the classes and joined a choir. i next married a blue collar and was with her over 20 years. she often complained that she wanted a larger home. in the meantime she ran up thousands of dollars in credit cards she can hardly pay living above her means. at the rip old age of 51 i can no longer afford to look for just love. i want love as much as anyone. ihope to find both love and a professional that i can enjoy the latter part of life left in the security that can come from having a professional skill. is that too much to ask for and be derrided about? give me a break. life is hard enough learning the hard way of doing things. i can only hope for a secure future.

Thanks hikerchick,

you know what i mean. there will always be those that let passion rule their lives. there are a lot of homeless people that probably feel the same way. others live off of others that are perhaps so well endowed that they can afford to do so until they age and the mojo dont work no mo. misery loves company, and friends are a dime a dozen. live well and take care of yourself. peace

To each his own. Security seems to become a matter of great responsibility as we mature and leave the comfort zone nest most parents provide.
Reality of higher gas cost, inflation in general with higher rents and food cost makes me know what Tina Turner ask,
"Whats love got to do with it?"
"Who needs a heart when it can be broken"... by hardship, hard times, and those that never grow up from wanting to play games all their life as it whizzes by in a flash of time and we age miserably and die broke, leaving the cost of responsibility to our children and others.

You look great flygirl17. You have a professional skill too.
Be encouraged!!!
There are quality enriched interested parties looking for quality like you.

It would be great to find someone who paid the price to improve
themselves and their life by becoming that nurse or teacher, or even doctor or lawyer, of the opposite sex. Race does not matter to me. Decent, intelligent, someones that are taking care of themselves physically, mentally, and financially who just have not been able to find that special chemistry in professional people of their space and time.

From one art teacher in Dallas that cares.