So...

You got "Big Bones"...I have seen your pix and I know exactly what I am saying Pats...


You ain't a little guy and never will be. So what? I am the one with the freakish metabolism...I eat like a fat man at a buffet...(those pet tape worms are great!) Most of my friends and neighbors are big boned...

Weight got nothing to do with it.....till you can't get your big a$$ to a standing position without help.....then...it ain't no one elses fault.

Personally, I don't like the "BBW" term...it tells me that a woman has become so comfortable with being fat that she thinks that it is socially acceptable and should be just as sexy as a 100 pounder with fake boobs.


Don't get me wrong...no one expects perfection...cause none of us are gonna get perfection..."BBW"...means they ain't even gonna put in the effort to get into a shape that will lead that woman to a place where she can love me as best she can for as long as she can. It means, she will love me till a bridge of french fries and sitting a sedentary fat@$$ in front of the tv will take her from me before I can give a woman all the love I got to live.

Am I shallow and a petty man? You better believe it.

I want to love as long and hard as I can while this life gives me that priviledge...No one rides for free...not even BBW.

you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But how is it ok to make skinny jokes but how dare anyone make a fat joke?

I have been skinny all of my life (just how I am) and my sister has always had weight problems

I have heard just as many skinny jokes as she has heard fat jokes and guess what....neither are nice.

I am who I am. If someone doesn't like me because I'm skinny or 5'7 or the color of my hair...oh well. There is someone that will.


The grass isn't greener on the other side BTW

If a girl wants to look like a "barbie" does that mean she is less of a person? Shouldn't she be able to look as she wants?

Pitting girls against each other because of looks doesn't help the mentality of others that look down on people because of looks.

It's all about preference. Whether it's weight, height, hair color/bald...whatever. They should be able to like what they like. Doesn't mean they are being mean if they don't like me for how I look though

JMO