Unfortunately, yes.


It really should be.

Here's the thing.
If you meet a guy and he only wants sex, buy you say "no" or try to get him to open up about more, to want more, and he doesn't? He's the bad guy.

If you meet a guy looking for "love" but you say "no," aren't attracted to him, or he decides he can't love you? What's that say about you?

I see it kind of like a car dealership and you're the salesman.
Guy may have wandered in and wants to immediately buy a ferrari for $2 with free gas and insurance for life, you can talk him into something else and make him see reality.

If a guy walks onto a used car lot with a preconceived notion of the driving experience holding you responsible for the guarantee of his idea of perpetual pleasure in driving, that's something to be avoided.


Other than that, are you "really" asking "this should be easier. I just want guys to line up, shut up, and present me with how they can fulfill my selfish emotional needs rather than their selfish physical ones?"

Do u love