First of all, wouldn't you want to use protection, Whether he did or not, Wal-mart sells the perfect vaginal contraceptives which I like to use instead of rubbers. It sounds to me like he is being a prick, and can't own up to his own actions, as well as you. If you love the man thats one thing, if it was a quickie, thats another. You can't make anyone do what they don't want to do, so don't chase him around and rag on him, let him settle. Time is a wonderful thing, and it does pass. What you do with it is up to you. You need someone to lean on, I'm here.