I believe that everyone should be who they are... unfortunately some are narrow-minded and shallow and expect us all to fit into their delusional molds of perfection. I have been fighting this uphill battle forever with my family especially.
The trick is- be comfortable in your own skin... live YOUR LIFE for YOU. Those who cannot see you for you and love/accept you "as is" are definitely at a loss... not you.
Just as we wish to be accepted "as is", we must apply the same philosophy to those in our lives and accept them for who they are... realize that it takes ALL TYPES to make the world move as it does. Even in "flaw" there is beauty, in Uniqueness, Divinity...

We're all on this earth trying to achieve similar goals... TO BE HAPPY... so even if you truly don't agree with WHO or WHAT someone is... accept what you cannot/should not change, and embrace it for what it is.