You are spot on! My two kids have gone away for the weekend to England. When they found out my plans (zilch) they hit the ground laughing, honestly they seem to think that working and looking after them with no other parental involvement means I will still have friends and a social life!!! HELLO! Whats more if I did go out and bring a man back with me (the popes a protestant) they would die a death and then on recovering would start asking me about sex etc etc just to embarass me. Its not worth the hassle!