Gotta say that I'm leaning with jackstraw69, it's free & can sucked. I've been on this site as well as eharmony (which cost me hundreds of dollars) & I am still searching. All I'm saying & this for the ladies as well as the men, just be very cautious when u first start dating. Mention to a family member or friend, where u r meeting, who u r meeting, where u met from & be honest, say online, say mingle or whatever(ladies if u don't return, they know exactly where to look on ur computer) leave a note on ur fridge or countertop if u can't tell anyone, make sure ur not followed home after ur date (I once mentioned my area like SE of the city & next thing I get msg's that he is drinking at the pub 2 blocks away from my house & the guy did this for a week, turns out he followed me home) not everyone u meet you will want in ur life.

Ya I know too, still hoping to meet s nice man.